[AntonyMullen]

Hi. I’m looking for couple friendly strip clubs for a date night.
I work away a LOT and since the kids are more self-sufficient, the wife and I have become more exploratory but quite private about some aspects. We have discussed the thought of a date night to a strip club since my wife is bi, but we want to find somewhere with a nice, friendly feel so we can both enjoy it. Also, somewhere a little further afield form our local area so we don’t start bumping into anyone we may know.
We don’t want to be surrounded by archetypal middle-aged leers, or alcohol fuelled groups of ‘lads, lads, lads’. I have tried to google this but struggling to produce any worthwhile results.
Can anyone share or recommend any decent spots or experiences so I can plan our upcoming date night sufficiently?
Thanks in advance.

[KetyElly]

Where abouts are you? Which country or area are you looking at?

[JeanMcaleer]

My partner and I did something similar when we traveled to Seoul last year. We were looking for a fun, low-pressure experience, and a local friend suggested 신림셔츠. It’s not exactly a strip club but more of a lounge-meets-entertainment spot. The vibe was incredibly welcoming, and the staff made us both feel at ease. It wasn’t too rowdy or “lads on tour,” just a nice mix of people enjoying the atmosphere.

What I loved most was how engaging it was for couples. It wasn’t one-sided at all—everyone was included in the fun, and it felt more playful than anything else. If you're planning a night like this, I’d say the key is finding a place that focuses on creating a positive, inclusive vibe like we experienced there.